MIRROR: Download from MEGA Click Here! I have a really quick question: I was talking to someone and she said that she didn't like any part of BDSM, D/s, or S&M because she couldn't understand how a person could want to hurt the person they care about. I tried to tell her that that's not what it's about. I know that the purpose of a D/s relationship is not to hurt the person you care about (that would be wrong) but I was no good at explaining it to her. Any help?