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My recommendation. Sign up on any of the sites in Sweden.
www.bdsmforum.se/forum/ is one, and you will be informed when they got a meeting to meet real people.
Darkside might still be around. (Got 2 ones I dated from that one)
Our site for Norway is down and uncertain when it will be back up I will not link it. But you can find SMIL for Norway and sign up there and start making smalltalk to people.
They got events on a regular schedule also, and I think I friend of mine still is a boardmember of that org.
If you're a reasonable chap as you say yourself you should have no problem starting to meet people, if and when you find a partner - that's a mystery you have to solve yourself.
Heck if I have anything to say about Sweden and Norway then it is that they're fast movers. So if you get a hint from a girl, just step on the train and go for it. Be hesitant and they will look elsewhere. Yes I know it can be hard, but remembering the submissive female who proposed to me in the wide open with several onlookers at one BDSM event 1½ year ago - I can say it might be so obvious also at times.
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