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I'm going to go a different way with this one.
While I almost always agree with Seb, I have no idea who your wife is and how she would react to you telling her this. I guess it depends on how you would articulate it and when. If she's homophobic it's gonna take a long time to get it right and could be disruptive.
I think it would be best to ask her to play with your ass during sex. If and when she asks "why?", just tell her that it would stimulate you sexually, you're not gay, but that you'd been thinking about it (you liked doing it as a child), and ask her if she has a problem with it.
If that works, move on the next step after a while, of wearing your piece.... But make it a small one to start (nothing shocking). Reveal more as needed based on "her" comfort level with what you're doing.
I have thought about all the conversations you might have about this, but every opening salvo I can think of seems either uncomfortable or funny (sorry... maybe it's just me). My suggestion seems a bit more natural to me, and when sex is in the front of your brain, you're a lot more open to things then when just talking.
In essence, I am recommending the same thing as Seb, M-Jey, and DR but with different timing, and with the notion that since you are married, you're gonna try to stay with her and keep the relationship as good as you can make it. In that spirit I think it's ok not to try to bring everything in at once. If she doesn't like it, you can put some of your secrets right back in your pocket. If you put it all out there and she thinks you're weird, you can't un-ring that bell. For me... I think it's ok to keep "some" things to myself.
Lastly... If you're gonna ask your wife to play with your ass, make sure it's clean.
Bad smells are a real turn off for me, and might be for her. You should be aware of this.
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