help me think of a punishment

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by dtw, Dec 31, 2008.

  1. dtw

    dtw New Member

    i am bad at coming up with punishments.

    my sub masturbated after i specifically told him not to (only two days after i last gave him an orgasm!). for a punishment, i handcuffed his right hand behind his back for a few hours (till we had to go out) but this was very minor and he seemed merely amused instead of uncomfortable.

    what would you do?

    i'm really legitimately upset about this; it's the THIRD time he's done it.
     
    Last edited: Dec 31, 2008
  2. ReallyGreen

    ReallyGreen Member

    Two that come to mind would be a male chastity device (such as the CB-3000) and a really thorough cock whipping.
     
  3. dtw

    dtw New Member

    yeah, we have one of the male chastity devices. the problem is he takes it off whenever he wants because one of the parameters defined at the very beginning was that he would not wear it to work and he lives an hour away from me so he can't very well come over and ask me to take it off every time he has to go to work. thanks for replying!
     
  4. ReallyGreen

    ReallyGreen Member

    Since your sub seems to enjoy jerking-off so much you could have him "demonstrate" his excellent hand-job technique on another male sub/slave.
     
  5. nix

    nix Guest

    Flog his balls.
    He'll NEVER do it again.
     
  6. ReallyGreen

    ReallyGreen Member

    Well maybe, I enjoy a good nut whipping myself every now and then.
     
  7. alexincali

    alexincali New Member

    Handcuff him to the bed then masturbate him. After he cums, feed his spunk to him with a spoon.
     
  8. Msboytoy

    Msboytoy New Member

    Have him masterbate in the shower, but make it ice cold, dont let him out till he cums
     
  9. Masterslug

    Masterslug New Member

    feeding him his cum is a good punishment but as a switch I can tell you that i wouldn't see it as punishment as I would enjoy it. Make the punishment fit the crime. If chastity is not an option, break out the strap-on
     
  10. Ruler88

    Ruler88 New Member

    If he likes to masterbate then tie him up and give him a rough handjob with lots of ball squeezing and punching and let him ejaculate .... but keep on rubbing his cock. His cock will be so sensative he will squirm and wriggle and beg you to stop.
     
  11. Tarynsslave

    Tarynsslave Member

    I had some difficulty refraining from pleasuring myself after accepting my collar, having climaxed nearly every day as a vanilla male. My Mistress was rather lenient with training me at first but warned me to never come without permission. Naturally, old habits kicked in and within 3-4 days, she caught me playing with myself.
    Since then, Mistress Taryn has made me wear a CB-6000 whenever she pleases (that is, all the time...). It was frustrating and humiliating to surrender my sexual releases, but it taught me the importance of subordinating my desires under hers. I am rewarded with a sexual release once or twice a week if I am well-behaved. Mistress Taryn has deprived me of climaxing for months at a time- and in my experience, has been one of the most effective punishments I have been given.
     
  12. Get rid of him. If he's being that much of a pain in the ass, he's not worth it. As a sub, I would NEVER expect a Dom to tolerate such behavior, so you've been more than lenient, especially since you mentioned he'd done it three times before. When you say he's taking it off when you're far enough away, that shows some serious trust issues, and if you're not able to trust each other 100%, you need to back way up and re-evaluate your relationship . . .

    /ragequit
     
  13. pepeluism

    pepeluism Member

    Here is an easy one: Put off a few cigarrettes on his dick. I know when they did that to me about a year ago I was not able to touch my dick for about 2 weeks.
     
  14. Master Insomnium

    Master Insomnium New Member

    The following is my current opus on the topic of punishment:

    Have your sub stand in a large pot or bucket, tie their hands behind their back and fill it either with very cold ice water (or just ice if your especially displeased). Then have them open their mouth and insert the handle of a spoon, and have them bite down on it. With the spoon held in their mouth, take an egg and place it in the scoop of the spoon. Then instruct them they must keep the egg in the spoon for a certain amount of time, 3-10 minutes depending on your subs ability to cope with the cold (If they can't stand it at all the punishment won't pan out until you let them off or frostbite sets in, neither of which are good outcomes.) Inform them if the egg falls, the timer will be reset, a difficult task with the chattering of teeth that should ensue. Obviously this will require you to know when the punishment should end, so educate yourself on the effects of prolonged exposure to cold. A good post-punishment comforting is to cook the egg, and have your slave eat it, saying it symbolizes what they have done wrong, and that eating it makes it go away, if you're keen. Elaborate yes, but I find the more complex a punishment, the more it drives the level of your displeasure home.
     

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