Frlskydingo
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Hello Readers,
Frlsky here, new to the site, and the culture and this will be my first post, thanks
for reading
So i am new to this culture but I I have always had a fascination with bondage and submission mostly wanting to experiment with my submissive side. I am generally a pretty laid back down to earth guy, who is observant and can be a bit shy.
What I found i was more desiring though was not so much to be told what to do, but want someone to play out a fantasy exactly the way i wanted it, where as when i talk to other subs they generally want to be told/made to do as there dom pleases, and they purely want to serve (within their limits of course).
So i have been talking to both doms and subs/ masters and slaves,casuals, and ppl who live the lifestyle and have been getting a general idea about good guidlines to start with and what kind of relationship i was looking for, which I thought would just be very kinky sex so i can satisfy some of my fantasies if i could find someone willing.
One night I received a simple "hello" in the chat messenger from a young woman and we started talking. She said she was a sub and asked me if i was a dom or something to that extent. I told her i was a sub but wanted to experiment with both roles, and i thought it would be a quick, pretty average conversation about our fantasies, and i would end up in the chatrooom 5 mins later talking shlt and trying to get a laugh/entertain my boredome.
What I got was alot more then i could have ever dreamed... The young woman i was talking to told me abit about herself and what she was into, at first she told me how she loved reading bdsm romantic novels and we talked a little about some fantasies she was into, and ones that i would suggest and if she liked them ect we were both having abit of fun and we both agreed that the site is generally pretty boring mostly full of perverts looking for a quick release, and not so many people actually wanting to discuss indepth what they are really looking for.
So as we were talking more and more about her fantasies and desires, and roleplaying in chat a bit, I was getting extrmeely turned on by the fact that she purely wanted to serve, and wanted to be told what to do. after some general fantasies she opened up more and eventually got enough confidence to share one of her most intimate desires: To be caged and treated like a pure slave/sub there to please her master in any way he wanted. she told me she truly aches for it,not just with sex but as a lifestyle as well.
I was really turned on by this young woman and conversation went from sex to where are you from how old are u what do u do for a lving ect. we both jumped on webcam and spoke for about 4 hours.
I was instantly gobsmacked with how beautiful she was, to give u an idea she is 5,8 short brown hair with brown rimmed classes and beautiful soft white skin. she was neither skinny nor overweight, or super fit, although she does swim and run. she seemed to be your average country girl, but i coudnt take my eyes off how beautiful she was.
so having my pretty laid back, friendly, shyish additude transitioning into a dominant man, i have found that even tho she wants me to have all the control, I purely want to serve her deepest and darkest desires indefinitely, so i am learning to be dominant and controlling and the fact that it turns her on soo much drives me fucking crazy... I have never had more confidence in my life, and i feel like i am taking control of my life and being honest with myself and what i want for a change,
I have always been a passive person, and have had 2 failed long term realtionships at 25 years of age, my first was with a girl who cheated on me, so she kinda walked all over me, the 2nd was an older women about 37 years old who was controlling and dominant( not in the bedroom, our sex was pretty boring and one dimentional) in the relatinship, and was always telling me what to do ect.
So after these failed relationships i started searching into bdsm because i was very unsatisfied sexually. i wanted to try new things and find soemone to expereince these new ideas with.
what i have found is more then i can every imagine, someone I can love with all my heart, a princess who i can spoil... and she is devoted to me completely... she is mine and mine only, as I am hers and hers only.
I want to satisfy all her desires as a Dom.. but my controlling side is coming out too.. and it is an amazing experience.
SO i guess i just wanted to say/ask
"Can a shy down to earth/romantic, passive, open minded,observant person be a successful dom? I know there are times when i am just not able to always be that kinda person, whether its because of my mood or whaetver.. but i want to satisfy her.. but she wants more then just amazing sex she wants to be controlled and told what to do in everyday life situations....im sure she can understand there will be times when either one of us wont be in the mood but how to u minimise this? anyoen have idea on how we could give each other signs when we were/were not in mood/character for our usual "roles"
thanks for listening to my story, i look forward to hearing your replies, and reading some of the topics in forum, feel free to talk to me anytime, i dont discriminate against age(be over 18 please ),sex or sexuality.
-FrlskyDingo
Frlsky here, new to the site, and the culture and this will be my first post, thanks
for reading
So i am new to this culture but I I have always had a fascination with bondage and submission mostly wanting to experiment with my submissive side. I am generally a pretty laid back down to earth guy, who is observant and can be a bit shy.
What I found i was more desiring though was not so much to be told what to do, but want someone to play out a fantasy exactly the way i wanted it, where as when i talk to other subs they generally want to be told/made to do as there dom pleases, and they purely want to serve (within their limits of course).
So i have been talking to both doms and subs/ masters and slaves,casuals, and ppl who live the lifestyle and have been getting a general idea about good guidlines to start with and what kind of relationship i was looking for, which I thought would just be very kinky sex so i can satisfy some of my fantasies if i could find someone willing.
One night I received a simple "hello" in the chat messenger from a young woman and we started talking. She said she was a sub and asked me if i was a dom or something to that extent. I told her i was a sub but wanted to experiment with both roles, and i thought it would be a quick, pretty average conversation about our fantasies, and i would end up in the chatrooom 5 mins later talking shlt and trying to get a laugh/entertain my boredome.
What I got was alot more then i could have ever dreamed... The young woman i was talking to told me abit about herself and what she was into, at first she told me how she loved reading bdsm romantic novels and we talked a little about some fantasies she was into, and ones that i would suggest and if she liked them ect we were both having abit of fun and we both agreed that the site is generally pretty boring mostly full of perverts looking for a quick release, and not so many people actually wanting to discuss indepth what they are really looking for.
So as we were talking more and more about her fantasies and desires, and roleplaying in chat a bit, I was getting extrmeely turned on by the fact that she purely wanted to serve, and wanted to be told what to do. after some general fantasies she opened up more and eventually got enough confidence to share one of her most intimate desires: To be caged and treated like a pure slave/sub there to please her master in any way he wanted. she told me she truly aches for it,not just with sex but as a lifestyle as well.
I was really turned on by this young woman and conversation went from sex to where are you from how old are u what do u do for a lving ect. we both jumped on webcam and spoke for about 4 hours.
I was instantly gobsmacked with how beautiful she was, to give u an idea she is 5,8 short brown hair with brown rimmed classes and beautiful soft white skin. she was neither skinny nor overweight, or super fit, although she does swim and run. she seemed to be your average country girl, but i coudnt take my eyes off how beautiful she was.
so having my pretty laid back, friendly, shyish additude transitioning into a dominant man, i have found that even tho she wants me to have all the control, I purely want to serve her deepest and darkest desires indefinitely, so i am learning to be dominant and controlling and the fact that it turns her on soo much drives me fucking crazy... I have never had more confidence in my life, and i feel like i am taking control of my life and being honest with myself and what i want for a change,
I have always been a passive person, and have had 2 failed long term realtionships at 25 years of age, my first was with a girl who cheated on me, so she kinda walked all over me, the 2nd was an older women about 37 years old who was controlling and dominant( not in the bedroom, our sex was pretty boring and one dimentional) in the relatinship, and was always telling me what to do ect.
So after these failed relationships i started searching into bdsm because i was very unsatisfied sexually. i wanted to try new things and find soemone to expereince these new ideas with.
what i have found is more then i can every imagine, someone I can love with all my heart, a princess who i can spoil... and she is devoted to me completely... she is mine and mine only, as I am hers and hers only.
I want to satisfy all her desires as a Dom.. but my controlling side is coming out too.. and it is an amazing experience.
SO i guess i just wanted to say/ask
"Can a shy down to earth/romantic, passive, open minded,observant person be a successful dom? I know there are times when i am just not able to always be that kinda person, whether its because of my mood or whaetver.. but i want to satisfy her.. but she wants more then just amazing sex she wants to be controlled and told what to do in everyday life situations....im sure she can understand there will be times when either one of us wont be in the mood but how to u minimise this? anyoen have idea on how we could give each other signs when we were/were not in mood/character for our usual "roles"
thanks for listening to my story, i look forward to hearing your replies, and reading some of the topics in forum, feel free to talk to me anytime, i dont discriminate against age(be over 18 please ),sex or sexuality.
-FrlskyDingo
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