I am dating a man, I have yet to have sex with. He recently told me he is a Dom. My questions are: What would be my role as a sub? Is it intimate? Will this have a negative or positive effect on the current relationship (for him)? Is it out of line for me to ask him not to kiss me or touch me if it isn't necessary (balance, etc)? I am very open and curious, though I have some personal problem from my past. So far, since I've been sexually active, I've only had no kissing, no touching, no foreplay, doggy-style for 5 minutes, send me home immediately sex.