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Just looking for a bit more advice here
My guy seems to be a whole lot more difficult just now.
After letting him out of his cage and letting him cum I gave him the option of a break (he is a switch) but he wanted to carry on as mine
I was planning putting him back in his cage at new year and have spent the past week or so giving him fun training like teaching him how to ruin his orgasms. Filling an ice cube tray of cum and other fun things
The other day I asked him to do some tasks for me and then let me know how he got on that evening
I didnt hear back from him till the following morning (with no report) he said he fell asleep. Which is fair enough - but I still felt I had to do something so I had him back in his cage as a reminder of me
Later that day I saw on his fetlife profile he had been posting on other ladies profiles at about 11:30 that evening
When I confronted him he said he wasnt on that late - so I left it
But I requested that he change his fetlife status to say that I own him - I figure if he is complimenting ladies images on there then it should be clear to everyone he is tied to me
He humed and haad, then finally asked how to change it - but he still hasnt
at the same time I wrote out his rules for this period in chastity
One of the main things was that any requests I make are followed out promptly and if he feels there is any reason he cannot obay he lets me know and I decide if he can be let off or he still has to do it
and also he has to keep his diary on fetlife for me to see
Last night I also alowed him to touch himself for the 1st time in 2 days
He messed up and orgasmed without permission (which I guess accidents happen - just surprised cos he did so well last time)
I had him lick it up, do his diary and told him again to change his profile
He did the other things but didnt change his profile
This morning he was asking if he could play, I said no because he haddnt finished his tasks from yesterday
I also added that on his fet he has to remove the 'looking for' bit because it still says he is looking for a sub/mistress/play partner/relationship
I am trying to get to the bottom of what is going on with him
all I can think is
1. he isnt taking it seriously
2. he has problems with following this bit because he is seeing someone else
3. he thinks I am not being hard enough on him and is trying to get punished
just wanted a bit of advice if anyone has been in a similar situation?
I dont particularly want to have to spend great deals of time managing him and having to think up loads of punishments - its kinda taking the fun out of it for me and as at the moment this is long distance I dont even know he is following the things I ask of him
I am not usualy a jelous person but I am getting to really doubt everything here
My guy seems to be a whole lot more difficult just now.
After letting him out of his cage and letting him cum I gave him the option of a break (he is a switch) but he wanted to carry on as mine
I was planning putting him back in his cage at new year and have spent the past week or so giving him fun training like teaching him how to ruin his orgasms. Filling an ice cube tray of cum and other fun things
The other day I asked him to do some tasks for me and then let me know how he got on that evening
I didnt hear back from him till the following morning (with no report) he said he fell asleep. Which is fair enough - but I still felt I had to do something so I had him back in his cage as a reminder of me
Later that day I saw on his fetlife profile he had been posting on other ladies profiles at about 11:30 that evening
When I confronted him he said he wasnt on that late - so I left it
But I requested that he change his fetlife status to say that I own him - I figure if he is complimenting ladies images on there then it should be clear to everyone he is tied to me
He humed and haad, then finally asked how to change it - but he still hasnt
at the same time I wrote out his rules for this period in chastity
One of the main things was that any requests I make are followed out promptly and if he feels there is any reason he cannot obay he lets me know and I decide if he can be let off or he still has to do it
and also he has to keep his diary on fetlife for me to see
Last night I also alowed him to touch himself for the 1st time in 2 days
He messed up and orgasmed without permission (which I guess accidents happen - just surprised cos he did so well last time)
I had him lick it up, do his diary and told him again to change his profile
He did the other things but didnt change his profile
This morning he was asking if he could play, I said no because he haddnt finished his tasks from yesterday
I also added that on his fet he has to remove the 'looking for' bit because it still says he is looking for a sub/mistress/play partner/relationship
I am trying to get to the bottom of what is going on with him
all I can think is
1. he isnt taking it seriously
2. he has problems with following this bit because he is seeing someone else
3. he thinks I am not being hard enough on him and is trying to get punished
just wanted a bit of advice if anyone has been in a similar situation?
I dont particularly want to have to spend great deals of time managing him and having to think up loads of punishments - its kinda taking the fun out of it for me and as at the moment this is long distance I dont even know he is following the things I ask of him
I am not usualy a jelous person but I am getting to really doubt everything here
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