Ok, summary: My GF is older than me by 2 years 2months, I have been told in my previous thread to seriously consider taking our relationship to a more "extreme" level since we are so close and trust each other so much, this being space and time provided. She currently will, if we move in together this coming year, be paying the majority of the bills. Where she can't be dominant in bed, when it comes to day-to-day life with people she is a bit more assertive than I, least when sticking up for people or herself or what she believes in. So, naturally, if we debate/argue over things, it can get heated, but when I want her in the bedroom to suck my cock and do it a certain way, within safety parematers, she'll do it. We now come to the conflict. She wants to be a working girl, doing her job and what not, and me not going to have a job till at least my senior year college (Per my grandfather's demands, won't go into that) that kinda puts a damper on me being the dominant one. Also, the idea of having this as a lifestyle for us, which I would enjoy, and think I could convince her that she'd enjoy it too, is still in question. The main issue here is: How does a dominant deal with not being a provider? Any other ideas on some of my issues here that are sub my main question would be nice too.