I don't know if this question has been asked before, but in my search for the master of my dreams I've hit a speed bump and am in need of advice. I know that although most people have a tendency to lean towards the dominant, submissive, or both category, not everyone out there is aware enough of their own tendencies and preferences to identify this. My question is, do you think it is possible to bring to the surface the dominant tendencies in an average man that doesn't know much (if anything at all) about domination? I can't make up my mind on whether it can be done (with the right strategy and tactics, and patience), or if some people just naturally lack the capacity for domination and can't be molded and shaped no matter how hard you try. Now I think I've just contradicted myself because if someone is that easily swayed and if I were able to mold his behavior into what I wanted, then who's really the dominant one and the submissive? Any advice or insight would be greatly appreciated.