Hi. I've been with my wife now for ten years, and we've had a fairly vanilla sex-life. Well, when I say vanilla, it's always sort of been right at the cusp of being kinky. Recently we have started exploring fetishes and fantasies. Well, my fetishes, my fantasies... I've owned up to having a foot fetish, and to being submissive, and she really seems to be loving taking a dominant role. I'm coming here and reading about things, and she does them without suggesting. Tying me down, denying me sex until I perform tasks and so on. But my wife is very dominant in her whole life, and I'm pretty sure if she could relax enough to enjoy it, she'd love being submissive. I know I'm a switch, so my first question: how do I get her to try taking a more submissive role. My second question. It can be hard entering this lifestyle on your own, and we certainly don't want to involve others, so where do we take it from here...? I know I want to go in further. In fact, with the exception of scat, I can't think of a single-thing I wouldn't want to do with my wife. Thank you.