I looked around for a while but didn't find anything quite like my question, so I guess I'll ask it. My girlfriend likes being submissive. Therefore, I am the dominant one in the relationship. Unfortunately, I'm pretty bad at coming up with new ideas. I like BDSM as long as it's not too extreme. I don't have a problem tying my girlfriend up, humiliating, spanking, or degrading her. Beyond that, I'm not too thrilled. I'm willing to try almost anything up to suspending her from the ceiling while I beat her with something. So, as mentioned, I'm bad at coming up with ideas. I've had two actual great ideas total. The first is tickle torture, where I leave her arms and legs free but sit on her stomach and tickle her. I tell her she isn't allowed to move, and if she does, she gets slapped or punished some other way. This kind of lets her know she has control to not listen to me, but she does anyway because she obeys my commands (I know it's not original, but she never thought of it and it really works for us.). The second, and most effective, is this one where I make her kneel in front of me, naked, with her face in the mattress and her butt facing me. I then tease her with the frequent question of "Do you trust me?" as I use my penis to rub her vagina but never insert it. It drives her crazy. I've even caught her trying to lean back while my penis was in the correct position for insertion because it turned her on so much. So my question is this. I really enjoy the teasing and the dominance role without all of the beating and degradation. I do it because I love her and it doesn't bother me. We have great communication in the relationship and we know what the other wants and what they don't really like so much. Does anyone have any ideas about what I can do that is similar in style to the things described in the preceding paragraph? I don't want it to involve pain, but something playful and loving that has been tuned up a little to be a tad more erotic or just something to tease her with? I'd really appreciate any input and I'd be happy to answer any questions. Thank you.