What's your favorite aspect of your BDSM relationship/lifestyle? What do you get out of it, what drew you to it, ect? I'm very partial to the domestic servitude aspect. I like to serve. Although it's not sexual in anyway, I still get a thrill, and it ensures that I'. wet and ready pretty much 100% of the time. I've always been drawn to the idea of the 1950's household; the stay at home mother, with home-made meals ready when their husband got home, having loads of time to spend with the kids and clean. My family wasn't that way, but I love it. Hopefully Master and I can continue to do this, financially speaking. I also love the idea of the 'old charmer' so to speak. The strong, charming, quick witted man, that oozes self confidence and knows how to treat a woman like a lady. Master's always been very charming and strong, now he just knows I like it. He opens the door for me when we goes places, and orders my meals when we go out to dinner. It's hard to find anyone like that anymore. Maybe I just got lucky. I think it's funny how the things I see as servitude and not normal in current days, are the things that my grandmother grew up doing and her mother before that. It just shows you how times change. I guess I'm just old fashioned. I get a thrill out of it though, as I'm sure they did not. I guess I'm just some-what old fashioned. Of course, I love the sexual things too. I'm a dirty dirty puppet.