Worried about these desires

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by Gimzim, Jun 25, 2008.

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  1. Gimzim

    Gimzim New Member

    Hey all, i'm new here and have a couple of questions. Basically, I've come to realize that i'm really attracted to the idea of being tied up, submissive, and all that stuff. I experimented with self-bondage from my early teens, I like watching bondage pornography, and i fantasise about this stuff all the time.

    The thing is, I really don't like the fact that I'm into this stuff. It's not that I think there's anything wrong with it - there isn't - it's just that it conflicts with how I want to lead my life. I want to eventually get married, have kids, lead an open and ordinary life, and I'm worried that this stuff means I won't be able to do that. Sure I'm attracted to other things, but I find the whole bondage idea so much more arousing than ordinary sex. I'm at a bit of a loss, I guess, and I don't quite know what to do. Can anybody help?
  2. nix

    nix Guest

    You can still do all that stuff. I know a few married couples either in person or over the net who engage in BDSM in the bedroom only, and have kids and completely vanilla lifestyles otherwise.
  3. ReallyGreen

    ReallyGreen Member

    And you can always hire a pro-domme to engage your bondage fetish if your future wife doesn't think too highly of it.
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