The random chat/off topic thread

sebastian · Apr 22, 2011

So how's everyone doing?

handcuff_freak · Apr 22, 2011

As good as I can be. Still no job. Running out of money fast and my ex is taking her timewith the divorce. She's fired a lawyer and hired another. I gave my responce within 4 days and she is taking 2 months with it. So aggrivating.

Sorry. I've not had a good day and I'm just laying down for some sleep.

Hope everyone is doing better than me.

Ceilidh · Apr 22, 2011

I have another doctor appointment in a few weeks. I'm nervous about what he'll say. I have been forgetting to eat and drink lots of water, and take my pill. I know what I am doing isn't healthy or good. And I am slowly fixing that by taking it one day at a time.

Hubby told me last night about a job offer he got. If he decides to go after the job, he'll be working 1.5 hours away from our current home. So we will most likely end up moving back near our families, and his new job will still be an hour drive away. And to top it off, we have to make a decision before June. I know it might sound like a lot of time, but we have also talked about buying a house near his sisters. Sigh. I just don't know what we are going to do. If we move then I'll be farther from my doctor and the hospital, maybe I could change doctors?

handcuff_freak · Apr 24, 2011

Sometimes doctors in different areas know each other well. Might ask your doc about it. See if he reccomends someone close to where you're moving.

I've been drowning myself in video games to take reality away. It works to get rid of my depression for at least a little bit. Takes my mind off everything. Feels like I keep needing it more and more, but its working less as time goes by.

sebastian · Apr 25, 2011

Cuffy: Strategies to distract yourself from your problems are short-term cures. They can be very helpful for addressing the immediate problem, but the more you rely on them, the less they work, because they're just about soothing your immediate unhappiness, not resolving the unhappiness.

So use the video games to get you through the rough spots as you fight to find a more lasting way to address your situation. Are you exercising regularly? That's one of the best ways to treat depression (and it has the side effect of getting you in better shape, which helps find a new gf).

sebastian · Apr 28, 2011

So, it turns out that Rihanna is a sub. It's nice to see a celebrity admit something like that, but given the abuse incident in her past, I'm kinda wishing it was someone else who had said it.

http://marquee.blogs.cnn.com/2011/03/30/rihanna-means-what-she-sings-in-sm/?iref=obinsite

Sate_Sprie · Apr 29, 2011

I'm really glad she's comfortable admitting that, but I almost get a feel that it's kind of an act. It seems like S&M or BDSM in general is becoming really popular. A lot of my friend claim their into it yet they don't know much about it. It kind of irritates me.

master jey · Apr 29, 2011

I don't really know if popularity of BDSM is a good or a bad thing...
It will become more acceptable for public,but the number of wannabes will greatly increase
Any thoughts?

Sate_Sprie · Apr 29, 2011

I honestly think it's a bad thing. I'd rather deal with it not being socially acceptable than hear about it from every teenage girl that wants to appear 'different'. I really dislike posers, and I don't believe in speaking about anything you don't truly understand. It would irritate me to no end.

sillylittlepet · Apr 29, 2011

Well its all just speculation that she's lying, maybe she's actually telling the truth

She talked about how nice it is to go home and have someone else make the decisions for you and tell you what to do (which is one of the same reasons I like to submit too! I'm very bossy and controlling in my everyday life)

Her interest in BDSM doesnt really seem to be linked to what happened with chris brown. After all, they got in an argument and he assulted her, as far as we know there wasn't a long history of abuse and domestic violence between them that could have gotten mixed in with BDSM.

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