MIRROR: Download from MEGA Click Here! My girlfriend and I like to do bondage and bdsm sometimes, but do not do it 24/7. The problem I am asking about is that we are both switch. What methods do people use with determining who should be dom and when? We never can decide who should be obeying who and whose turn it is to be tied up. I feel if we had a system that we stuck to we would enjoy the whole experience much more. Thanks for the advice.