I am relativly new to the Master slave world, but i love it. my Master and i are very much in love and we both want this relationship. The problem is is that i am very strong willed, stubborn and sometimes i just do things to get his attention. the way he punishes me is denying me what i want most; affection. and as he should but deep down that really hurts. i just need some advice how to please him and still be my self.