Hello all... I am new around here and new to all this. I am looking for some advice from those more experienced in these matters... My husband and I have been married 10 years. Although our marriage has always had whispers of BDSM, last month, something clicked and we have been going full throttle ever since. I am thrilled, to put it mildly. I have always known that he is a natural dom, but I think he was frightened to open that door. I donâ€™t know what changed for him, but boy, am I glad it did! After our first session, the first thing I said when he took the gag out was â€œWhere have you been all my life?â€ I am looking for some advice. There has been some talk, mostly during play, about him lending me out to other men (or groups of men) and/or women. While both of us find this idea exciting, I have several concerns about implementing this in reality. We donâ€™t live the dom/sub dynamic 24/7 â€“ and neither of us wants that. My concern is that involving others would be AMAZING during play, but would have big ripples in â€œrealâ€ life. We have always been monogamous, and I donâ€™t believe that we are capable of accurately anticipating our reactions. So, I guess I am looking for advice on how to approach this in a way that will safeguard our marriage and our emotions after the fact. Anyone have any experience with this?