Hi all, Just need some advice. My girlfriend and I are newcomers to the whole Dom/Sub thing. We tried it out with me being the dom and her being the sub, and kept it purely sexual. It didn't become a life style thing that we take really seriously, it only really applied in the bedroom/sex department. A usual Friday night would consist of me telling her what to do, dancing naked, oral, dressing up for me, tying her up and having my way. Recently we've both discovered that we both have a dom/sub side and we both wish to take this further. She wants to try to dominate me (walking on me in stilettos, hitting me, ordering me to do things to her etc) but our problem is... how do we play this? Do we do a day when she plays dom and a day when I play dom? Do we wait until one of us fucks up and needs to be punished and the one who fucked up gets to be sub? We're both new to this, but we know what we like and what makes us feel good. We're really not sure how to go about this so any advice at all would be great. Thanks.