Do any of the other subbies here get a little twinge of discomfort when reminded that you have the final say and thus the ultimate control? I am not talking safety issues here, I know this statement is true in any safe D/s relationship and think safewords are a must. What I am wondering is, when you are reminded by your Dom that you have the ultimate control, what is your viseral reaction? Do you have conflicting emotions like me? Doms, have you ever noticed your subbies getting quiet or reacting differently when this subject is mentioned?