lately i thought finding myself a relationship with a sub, though i want to control her from afar, she will probably never see me, only talk to me through technological instruments. i believe i can create a great adventure for any sub who really want's to dedicate 100% of herself to someone and i even have the whole thing planed and well detailed too. the thing is: i don't what to hurt anyone, that's why i came here for your opinion. how can i create a relationship that wont hurt the sub, and she will KNOW we wont be together, though i will always be somewhere watching her. i am afraid of her getting attached and become addicted not only to the control i inflict on her but also about me. though she wont see me, she will desire to, and will be in much pain for it. i truly have no intention hurting anyone, therefor i am trying to plan this whole thing beforehand. i will be very glad having your opinion on this subject. thanks, the seeker.