Starting out..

I'm new to the whole scene and haven't really tried anything yet.. bondage and complete submission has always been a huge turn on.. and so is the whole hitting with crops and floggers, etc.. but I'm terrified of that part even though it turns me on. how is the best way to start off.. with everything.

 

Have you read through the Newcomer's FAQ? There's a lot of info that you might find helpful.