Sex, fidelity, and other questions (merged)

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  1. Battles

    Battles Banned

    Hello,

    1) Do you consider yourself sexually open minded?

    2) Have you ever cheated on a girlfriend before?

    3) Have you ever had unprotected sex? When? With whom?

    4) How important is sex to you?

    5) How important do you think fidelity is, in a Sexual relationship?

    6) Which are the three people of the opposite sex you consider the most attractive?

    7) What is Tantric Sex? please help me.

    8) What it would have been to be born as the opposite sex?

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  2. Smallest

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    Merged because these were so many little questions in so many threads, and numbered them to make it easier to answer.

    1) Yes

    2) No, although we played with polyamoury temporarily

    3) No condom most times with my Master, I have an IUD and he's clean. I would never have unprotected sex with someone I didn't know for sure was completely clean. There's a fair chance I wouldn't have sex at all with them, out of paranoia. And out of a monogamous longterm relationship, I also would live by that paranioa and use condoms.
    (ETA- I thought part of this question was 'would you ever')

    4) Very.

    5) Just sexual? No emotions? Then as long as there's no STDs to worry, not hugely important. But that's not really cheating if you're not dating, so I assume you mean in an actual relationship, dating, etc. In that case, very. Lying is both a shitty thing to do and, in the case of cheating, dangerous, because of the possibility of STDs. I have nothing against polyamoury or open relationships, but cheating's a huge lie to your partner. If you don't love her, leave her first, if you want more than one, talk to her about changing your relationship dynamic. Communication is the most important thing, especially in BDSM relationships.

    6) My sir, then after that, no one particular, I find a couple types, friends, celebrities good-looking, but I haven't ranked them.

    7) Probably a better answer than I can give.

    8) I'd probably have more male friends, and be a straight male instead of a straight female. Otherwise, there's way too much to speculate- what if I was a redhead, what if I was tall, what if I was anything. All kinds of minor things could change if I was male vs female- friends and orientation are the most important and likely things I could think of.
     
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  3. Sparrow69

    Sparrow69 Moderator

    1) Do you consider yourself sexually open minded?
    Yes

    2) Have you ever cheated on a girlfriend before?
    No. From an outsiders perspective it may seem as if I have, however every new partner I've ever had has been either with the consent of the current one or after I left the old one.

    3) Have you ever had unprotected sex? When? With whom?
    Yes. Several times throughout my life, with partners I either knew were safe to do so with or I was in a relationship with.

    4) How important is sex to you?
    I wouldn't say it is as important as intimacy, but it us an eventuality of deciding to take on a relationship. I would not enter into an intimate relationship if there was no chance of sex at some point.

    5) How important do you think fidelity is, in a Sexual relationship?
    VERY. A relationship is built of a foundation of trust and communication. The act of infidelity solely relies upon abandoning these aspects.

    6) Which are the three people of the opposite sex you consider the most attractive?
    An Interesting Question. Obviously my wife, and our partner (soon to be my wife as well) as we are in a poly-amorous relationship.... But the third is what troubles me and that is because this question needs expansion I think. Are you talking primarily about the gender (sex) in which a person physically is, or the gender (sex) in which a person identifies with? I ask because while there is another female I am highly attracted to, said person was in fact born male, and as they are a very dear friend, I am very understanding about birth gender verses gender identification.

    7) What is Tantric Sex? please help me.
    Tantric sex is simply the act of training ones body, mind, and soul to engage in a sexual act that upon release, promotes a prolonged sense of ecstasy and pleasure while controlling the release of ejaculate material for as long as possible to stimulate the reaction of such an ordeal as the state of climax on the body.

    8) What it would have been to be born as the opposite sex?
    This falls into my category as question 6 does, as I've often considered this. I think my life would be vastly different, especially in the society we live in. I don't think that my attraction qualities would change so I'm sure I would still be attracted to females (by birth and by choice), but I also feel i would be more submissive then I am.
     
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