Enlighten the Kaj please: 1. A "vanilla"? 2. "Breaking down"? I'm guessing this varies, but some examples? If you prefer to pm me, go ahead... 3. A top? I assume this meant someone kinky and agressive but not technically a Master? But assuming can be bad. 4. Master Jey is straight or gay? I'm easily confused, my apologizes. 5. Am I the only one who pictures SLP as a pep squad girl or former cheerleader?