Well, we've been having sex for about a week or so, maybe more. I don't feel much different, but she loves it, and basically went from saying "I don't know why anyone would do that," to "When are you getting another one?" I told her if we wait a while, I'll get an ampallang if she gets her nipples pierced. I just have a thing about pierced nipples. They are adorable. Anyway, we tried anal two days ago. It hurt and I couldn't manage it, but we did finish having sex. All day yesterday I was in pain. Today we tried to have sex (this morning) but I was too sore. She encouraged me to see to myself, and I managed that with no pain. 1) Did we try anal too soon? 2) If yeah, how long should we wait? 3) I think she might have been dry (we never actually use lube, just saliva or pussy juice). What's a good lube? 4)Is anal possible with a PA? Someone had better say yes to 4, we both love anal. Then again, if it means never having anal again, I doubt she'll let me take this out. She's enjoying it too much.