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Think you and my wife are going thru the same thing. Each week I give her 2 or 3 assignments. This week was to write in her journal on mon, wed, and friday and to also end any "yes, no, and I love you's" in Sir. Be it thru speech or text. In planning this sounded really simple to me. And this overwhelmed her greatly. Weve talked about it somewhat but, she expressed she needed a break from our "second life" so to speak BUT, what really gets me is shes collared full time except for sleep. Wears it proudly to work and the whole bit. She has expressed that she certainly doesnt want it removed.
Part of me wants to deny her the wearing of the collar because she cant complete two fairly simple tasks and the other part of me says we are married with three kids and perhaps I need to pick and choose my fights. Maybe my girl is just having a bad week. Maybe its the being married with three kids part that is acutally the overwhelming factor. I dunno. We (or I) havent figured it out yet.
Anyhow, what Im getting at is, keep your communication open and honest with your Sir. He cant try to help you or work with you if he doesent know theres a problem. We are trying to work through this and have this rough patch help us grow. Of course......people just have shitty weeks too. So, maybe its just a matter of clocking out, clearing the mind, and rebooting.
Best of luck and I would really be interested in a follow up when you get things back on track. What you and your Sir did or didnt do or how the disscussions went. Ill do the same if you want. No sense in being on a forum if we cant help each other out right?
Again, good luck.
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