Hi all, Some backstory.. My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year, we see each other for 5-7 days a month because she lives in Portland, and I am up in Seattle. We have slowly gotten more and more kinky in our sex life, we are both complete noobs in the S&M world but I have done a little bit of research and have introduced ourselves to some spankings, tying her hands to the bed, writing dirty things on her with lipstick, etc. We had a talk recently though and she expressed a need for me to be even more aggressive and turn up the heat in the bedroom. I'm happy to oblige her and so I've come up with my first scene and was hoping to get some tips. So here is a typed up copy of the letter I sent her yesterday... ____________________ Official Correspondence from the Estate of Mr. <My full name> You have captured the attention of Mr. <Me> and your presence has been requested. Please be aware that this request is not optional, not showing up at the agreed upon time and date would be extremely inadvisable. Mr. <Me> has strict and precise rules for your visit during which you will be subjected to his personal desires and whims. Below you will find his requirements for your outfit and personal grooming. Please understand that <Me> will be using you for his personal enjoyment and you may find yourself overcome with feelings you are unfamiliar with but it is imperative that you follow all requirements and instructions during this encounter, you will be punished for infractions and rewarded for adherence to his standards. Congratulations on being chosen for this unique honor. Garment and Appearance Requirements: 1. A red dress that falls above the knee, it must not cover any part of your arms. 2. Your hair must be let down and curled. 3. Your makeup must be done in such a way as to look professional and classy. 4. You will shave completely your legs, vagina, armpits, and arms. 5. You may not wear panties of any variety. However you must be wearing stockings in black, or skin toned color. 6. You will be exceedingly clean and washed. Visit Requirements: 1. You must arrive at the hotel at precisely 8:00 p.m. sharp, lateness is inexcusable. 2. You must blindfold yourself before knocking on the rooms door and entering. 3. You will address Mr. <me> as "sir" or "master" during the entirety of the visit. 4. You will obey all instructions given to you. 5. If at any time you cannot continue you may say the word "mercy" and you will be given a short reprise. 6. You are to submit yourself completely to Mr. <Me>'s desires or be punished severely. Congratulations once again on this distinctive and unique pleasure. You may submit all questions via email to Mr.<Me> directly however you must address him as mentioned before and ask with the utmost respect. If Mr. <Me> finds your service agreeable and all goes well, you will be presented a ring with an inscription on the inner portion reading "Property of <Me>". ____________________________________ So... I think that part is all figured out.. now comes the stuff I really have no idea about, the actual domination of my girlfriend. I have a little idea into what I would like to do, but I am DEFINETLY looking for some good tips and ideas to make this a fun time for both of us. The things i have at my disposal: Lube, cat-of-nine tails, leather wrist cuffs with metal loops for tying, rope, a wide spreader bar, some clothespins or I could buy nipple clamps, massage oil, and a small butt-plug, and a Hitachi. I am thinking I want to start with her entering, giving her a check to make sure she followed all my rules, slowly undressing her, making out with her, and then making her give me a blowjob. After that possibly a massage for her on the bed so she can relax a little before I tie her up and use the Hitachi on her. After that I really have no idea, what else can I do? Thanks all! (By the way there could be some pictures and video involved, which I may be able to share but need to discuss with her after the fact).