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Hi all,
I'm new and really like what I've seen here.
So here's the situation:
My fiancé and I have been together for four years, I was vanilla when we met (she was not, into bdsm as far back as boyfriend #1, but nobody since him really being good at it)
She's very much a sub and I've discovered that I'll switch for other's pleasure but am a dom usually. Although what I get the most enjoyment from is facilitating other's pleasure.
Since then we've incorporated role-play, spanking, tie-up, flogging, exphixiation, and such into our sex lives. It has been great.
She has expressed an interest I taking the play out of he bedroom and into day to day life she wants me to control her more, order her to hte gym (cause she's lazy and wants motivation), she want to cook for me and such non- sex activities. She's started asking if things she does pleases me.
It seems like a lot of fun, and I love taking care of her in return.
So, I understand that there's two types of punishment/discipline: playful/sexy and training.
We are currently discussing hard and soft limits (we know each other very well, obviously). So, sexy scenarios where I get to tie her up, or punish her and such, easy enough to develope fun scenes.
But I'm lost on how to train her.
There are things like gym and cooking that require one level,
She loves to do what I've learned is called 'bratting' when she's being annoying on purpose
I would like some clarification and/or advice/ideas on what to do with/to her.
I'm getting tired on: she does/doesn't do something, I tell her to bend over and spank/flog her ass, then we move on.
It's repetitive.
Thoughts? Thanks.
-Dem
I'm new and really like what I've seen here.
So here's the situation:
My fiancé and I have been together for four years, I was vanilla when we met (she was not, into bdsm as far back as boyfriend #1, but nobody since him really being good at it)
She's very much a sub and I've discovered that I'll switch for other's pleasure but am a dom usually. Although what I get the most enjoyment from is facilitating other's pleasure.
Since then we've incorporated role-play, spanking, tie-up, flogging, exphixiation, and such into our sex lives. It has been great.
She has expressed an interest I taking the play out of he bedroom and into day to day life she wants me to control her more, order her to hte gym (cause she's lazy and wants motivation), she want to cook for me and such non- sex activities. She's started asking if things she does pleases me.
It seems like a lot of fun, and I love taking care of her in return.
So, I understand that there's two types of punishment/discipline: playful/sexy and training.
We are currently discussing hard and soft limits (we know each other very well, obviously). So, sexy scenarios where I get to tie her up, or punish her and such, easy enough to develope fun scenes.
But I'm lost on how to train her.
There are things like gym and cooking that require one level,
She loves to do what I've learned is called 'bratting' when she's being annoying on purpose
I would like some clarification and/or advice/ideas on what to do with/to her.
I'm getting tired on: she does/doesn't do something, I tell her to bend over and spank/flog her ass, then we move on.
It's repetitive.
Thoughts? Thanks.
-Dem
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