Hi All, I've only been introduced to BDSM in the last 9months and would like some help. I haven't really trained my bottom to do things without telling her and often shes good at it but she sometimes forgets. So maybe some ideas on how i can make sure she remembers these things and knows her place would be great. My bottom has a low tolerance to pain, we're not 24/7 and also long distance at the moment. I also need some clarification on what the different between Ritual and Protocol is and also some examples of what these two would be as well as what could be enforced or how they could be enforced. I'm also not sure what the differences are between a Top/Dom and a Bottom/Sub. I know the little differences between the two but i would like a bit more detail if possible. Thanks.