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Speil/leid · Jan 21, 2010

Thank you, ReallyGreen, we will take all of your advice into consideration! As for you, pepeluism, I do dominate casually, and I doubt some people would have the stomach for some of my methods, its understandable. Hopefully the state laws will allow us to perform as close to the legal boundaries as possible.

ezekeil · Jan 21, 2010

Really Green said:
5. Aikido. Or any martial art that specializes in "joint locking". Anybody can handcuff somebody. But if you can keep a 300lb man on the floor with your left hand and not spill your drink ..... Thats empowering and fun.

I'm fairly high up in my local Aikido club - It could be extremely fun for a Dom. It takes a lot of hard work and mental discipline. I'd also reccomend Krav Maga aswell, simply because while Aikido teaches you how to fold someones right elbow into their left ear via anus, and look mighty cool doing so, Krav Maga is systemised arse kicking and much more useful in a "real life" situation (it also teaches you how to take a beating).

a fun scenario for aikido could be... i dunno, the person A tries to overpower and rape person B, is promptly folded origami-like, then f'd up the a? (sorry, im new to this.)

ReallyGreen · Jan 21, 2010

ezekeil said:
I' Krav Maga is systemised arse kicking and much more useful in a "real life" situation (it also teaches you how to take a beating).

Being a dominatrix isn't a job/hobby that requires a military-level H2H combat system. I'm all for the BoyScout motto "Be prepared", but the reality is that having conditioning to disable a combatant with a heel to the side of the knee is really probably not in the best interest of anyone. TASERs, cellphones, or a .38 snubnose will statistically be all you'll ever need.

If you want to learn Krav Maga (or Combat Hapkido, Guge Gonji, Kapap, Sansho, Sambo, etc etc etc) I'm not trying to discourage you; Classes are addictive and fun. But assuming you should need to practice this for your job is overkill. It'd be like teaching every highschool senior the OSS 'kabar to the kidney' dispatch method "just incase".

Really, premeditated assault and attempted murder against professional dommes are astronomically rare. Worldwide there were less than a hundred incidents in the whole of the twentieth century among six billion people. You're more likely to be hit by lightning the day you win the Powerball lottery.

ReallyGreen · Jan 21, 2010

ezekeil said:
a fun scenario for aikido could be... i dunno, the person A tries to overpower and rape person B, is promptly folded origami-like, then f'd up the a? (sorry, im new to this.)

Martial arts bondage (joint locking and wrestling pins) and S&M is an entire established genre of pornography, and with the popularity of UFC and MMAs I imagine there are already pro-dommes and prostitutes specializing in this type of "session".

For porn check-out FootFighters(dot com)

pepeluism · Jan 22, 2010

I didn't mean that as a put down. Sorry if it came off that way. All I'm saying is that, from what I hear, I don't know that there would be a good first experience. But I could be wrong.

I agree that joining an established Mistress is a great way to go. I try sessions with "apprentice" Mistresses all the time when they are backed by a Mistress I know and trust.

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