So I recently got out of a 3 year completely vanilla relationship (where we rarely had sex anyway) and started getting back to my submissive side and playing with that, meaning a few hook ups with guys who were varying degrees of dominant. Now I've run into the problem where I met this guy that I really like and we've had sex twice except I haven't given him a blow job and I feel horrible about it but he hasn't asked and I don't know how to "initiate". I feel like he must think I'm an uppity bitch because he's gone down on me and I haven't gone down on him. Now I've decided I either need to explain to him that I'm naturally very submissive and that I really don't know how to go about just initiating things and that if he'd like a blow job all he needs to do is ask. Or I need to learn how to go about just giving him a blow job. Honestly the first idea seems easier for me because the second just seems so uncomfortable and I wouldn't even know what to do. However I'm kind of afraid that I'll scare him away, I'm not looking for a long term relationship with this guy or anything, I'm doing a study abroad in Germany in the city where he lives so I'll only be here for a few more weeks. But I'd still rather not scare him off, I'd kind of like to stay friends after this (I'm 20 btw, it's for College, not like High School). Soo what I'm asking is either advice on what I could say to him and how I could say it so that he wouldn't be scared away or advice on how to maybe go about initiating a blow job. I think it would be easier if I got hints that he was dominant, but I haven't, it's not like he's a push over I just can't read him all that well.