So I recently started discussing fantasies with my male dom. I'm new to the "hardcore" side of BDSM, he is not. He wont share much with me, he says he's worried he'll scare me. So we spend a lot of time with me talking, about what I want and what I think about. And that's all great, but I'm wondering what kinds of things he thinks about. I know everyones different, but was wondering what some of the things others think about and like. Mostly looking for ideas I like, that I can incorporate into my stories so he'll know I'm ok with them. I just dont feel like im being creative enough though. Thanks for any input, been searching the web to no avail for scene ideas.