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Okay, so in the first post, I was talking about coaxing my boyfriend into playing my Daddy dom. Well, now I need some advice on doing a switcheroo.
After our short romp in the hotel, he said that he'd like to try being on the other end. He's thrown this idea out for a few years now, but whenever I would get enthused about it, he kind of withdrew the offer. I think he was scared, perhaps?? I'd told him that I would love to do that if he'd let me, but then he said he probably wasn't into it. So I guess it was one of those "Well, I'd like you to do this to me, but I'm kind of scared, so why don't you go first?" type thing. Perhaps knowing that I wouldn't see him as weak or sick, as I shared a similar fantasies, helped take away his fears? Not sure, but either way, he has confirmed he definitely wants to try it, and I agreed, and we've decided our next hotel adventure is going to include a switcheroos.
So, he's not as open about sharing fantasies as I am. He claims he has none... Once in a while he'll throw something out, then later when I ask if he'd like to try it, he says he doesn't really think he'd like that. *sigh* Rather fustrating, but I guess I DO go overboard in trying to get him to tell me this vital information, so perhaps I scare him a bit? Also, we're an INSANELY jealous and monogamous couple- like if there is such a thing as hardcore monogamy, we're the definition. Don't get me wrong- this is what makes us both happy and comfortable, but it does cause a few issues. For example, I ask him what he thinks about when he mastrubates, and he says he thinks about me... And I say doing what? And he says what we usually do... And so I ask what he thought about before he met me, and he said he doesn't remember :disapointed: I've learned that trying to push him to tell me stuff really just makes him upset and does not good, so I will just take it as a compliment that I'm THAT delicious
He has conveyed the following:
Light restraints and a blindfold would be OK
Interested in me using him for my own pleasure by tying him down and having my way with him sexually
Interested in me riding his face- possibly as a punishment
NOT interested in humiliation or pain play (except spanking)
Interested in having a strap-on used on him
Interested in anal beads
Would like me to wear some lingerie (yay!!)
No other names other than our nick name for eachother (which is kind of cute but out of place)
I'm not sure how long he wants our scene to be, but to me, this does not seem like much to work with! He said he wants to feel dominated and (for lack of a better term) used for my pleasure... But of course in a loving and endearing way, I am assuming by the answers to my endless string of questions.
I currenlty posess sexy lingerie, anal lube and a blindfold. I heard that nylon stockings make great restraints, and I am very creative with knots... Can't afford a strap on, as I'm a struggling college student and even the cheaper kits are expensive. I'd prefer to save up and buy a nice harness later on But I'm assuming a dildo or vibrator will do it for him. I will have to ask to make sure it's not too big of a disappointment. Also, I will be buying anal beads If I can find cheap lube injectors, I might buy one for a fantasy of my own, and I can also use that on him. (They normally come in packs of three I think, so no worries about sanitary issues.) I was also thinking about asking him about ice and celophane wrap... Don't know if he's down for that, but we've used ice on eacother's backs before (where it's more pleasureable than it is painful for some reason), so I'm assuming I can use ice on his back at least.
It's not very good or elaborate or long enough, but I've got somewhat of a plan down:
Have him run out for some sort of random errand, and tell him to come back and look on the bed for instructions.
Lay the blindfold on the bed and write a not saying to put it on and lay down on the bed naked.
Change into lingerie.
Stay in the bathroom until he comes back and puts on the mask and lays down.
Come out and tie him to the bed, then lay out my tools on the night stand.
Have fun teasing him with my hands and mouth for a while, maybe using the ice.
Briefly step away, and remove my panties. Toss them on his face.
Somewhere in between something find a reason to ride his face, which would require untying him possibly.
Lubricate his anus and insert the anal beads.
Hop on his cock and take pleasure in slowly fucking him for a while.
When it gets really steamy, jump off, untie him and order him to get on all fours.
Tie his legs, so they remain apart.
Put on a pair of rubber gloves, pull out the anal beeds and play with them for a while.
Then lubricate my finger and stimulate his prostate, playfully spanking him while I do it.
Then, get up and grab the dildo and put a condom on it and use it on him.
Other than repeating, I have no further ideas... I don't want to push his limits a lot the first time, because I don't want to scare him away (I think he's scared I may take this too far, and I need to earn his trust I think before I start pushing even any soft limits, nonetheless harder ones.) So it's kind of weak sauce, but it's supposed ot be that way... Yet I don't want him to be bored.
Ideas? Feedback? Moral confidence-boosting support?? Thanks in advance
After our short romp in the hotel, he said that he'd like to try being on the other end. He's thrown this idea out for a few years now, but whenever I would get enthused about it, he kind of withdrew the offer. I think he was scared, perhaps?? I'd told him that I would love to do that if he'd let me, but then he said he probably wasn't into it. So I guess it was one of those "Well, I'd like you to do this to me, but I'm kind of scared, so why don't you go first?" type thing. Perhaps knowing that I wouldn't see him as weak or sick, as I shared a similar fantasies, helped take away his fears? Not sure, but either way, he has confirmed he definitely wants to try it, and I agreed, and we've decided our next hotel adventure is going to include a switcheroos.
So, he's not as open about sharing fantasies as I am. He claims he has none... Once in a while he'll throw something out, then later when I ask if he'd like to try it, he says he doesn't really think he'd like that. *sigh* Rather fustrating, but I guess I DO go overboard in trying to get him to tell me this vital information, so perhaps I scare him a bit? Also, we're an INSANELY jealous and monogamous couple- like if there is such a thing as hardcore monogamy, we're the definition. Don't get me wrong- this is what makes us both happy and comfortable, but it does cause a few issues. For example, I ask him what he thinks about when he mastrubates, and he says he thinks about me... And I say doing what? And he says what we usually do... And so I ask what he thought about before he met me, and he said he doesn't remember :disapointed: I've learned that trying to push him to tell me stuff really just makes him upset and does not good, so I will just take it as a compliment that I'm THAT delicious
He has conveyed the following:
Light restraints and a blindfold would be OK
Interested in me using him for my own pleasure by tying him down and having my way with him sexually
Interested in me riding his face- possibly as a punishment
NOT interested in humiliation or pain play (except spanking)
Interested in having a strap-on used on him
Interested in anal beads
Would like me to wear some lingerie (yay!!)
No other names other than our nick name for eachother (which is kind of cute but out of place)
I'm not sure how long he wants our scene to be, but to me, this does not seem like much to work with! He said he wants to feel dominated and (for lack of a better term) used for my pleasure... But of course in a loving and endearing way, I am assuming by the answers to my endless string of questions.
I currenlty posess sexy lingerie, anal lube and a blindfold. I heard that nylon stockings make great restraints, and I am very creative with knots... Can't afford a strap on, as I'm a struggling college student and even the cheaper kits are expensive. I'd prefer to save up and buy a nice harness later on
But I'm assuming a dildo or vibrator will do it for him. I will have to ask to make sure it's not too big of a disappointment. Also, I will be buying anal beads If I can find cheap lube injectors, I might buy one for a fantasy of my own, and I can also use that on him. (They normally come in packs of three I think, so no worries about sanitary issues.) I was also thinking about asking him about ice and celophane wrap... Don't know if he's down for that, but we've used ice on eacother's backs before (where it's more pleasureable than it is painful for some reason), so I'm assuming I can use ice on his back at least.It's not very good or elaborate or long enough, but I've got somewhat of a plan down:
Have him run out for some sort of random errand, and tell him to come back and look on the bed for instructions.
Lay the blindfold on the bed and write a not saying to put it on and lay down on the bed naked.
Change into lingerie.
Stay in the bathroom until he comes back and puts on the mask and lays down.
Come out and tie him to the bed, then lay out my tools on the night stand.
Have fun teasing him with my hands and mouth for a while, maybe using the ice.
Briefly step away, and remove my panties. Toss them on his face.
Somewhere in between something find a reason to ride his face, which would require untying him possibly.
Lubricate his anus and insert the anal beads.
Hop on his cock and take pleasure in slowly fucking him for a while.
When it gets really steamy, jump off, untie him and order him to get on all fours.
Tie his legs, so they remain apart.
Put on a pair of rubber gloves, pull out the anal beeds and play with them for a while.
Then lubricate my finger and stimulate his prostate, playfully spanking him while I do it.
Then, get up and grab the dildo and put a condom on it and use it on him.
Other than repeating, I have no further ideas... I don't want to push his limits a lot the first time, because I don't want to scare him away (I think he's scared I may take this too far, and I need to earn his trust I think before I start pushing even any soft limits, nonetheless harder ones.) So it's kind of weak sauce, but it's supposed ot be that way... Yet I don't want him to be bored.
Ideas? Feedback? Moral confidence-boosting support?? Thanks in advance
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