Soo... Just out of pure curiousity... Exactly how safe/unsafe is it to meet a Dom online? Are there different sites that are considered safer than others? I have learned that Craigslist is a bad idea. And it's a bad idea to play with inexperienced Doms you don't know well. And you should meet in a coffee shop first. And you should also have someone call to check in with you, and hotels are preferrable. And the best way is to just meet people at munches and other BDSM functions... But I've known a few people who have met people on Fetlife or OKCupid and played with them and nothing bad happened. (But then again, I also know people who have tried methamphetamines and nothing bad happened.) Thoughts? Opinions? Experiences??