Tempestas somniorum
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Ok, so. . . After my boyfriend and I had a long talk (as a few of you are aware) I had him list a few kinks that he was into. Below is a list of those things. . . He refuses to give me a "full" list because he thinks I veto'd too many of the things that he gave me, but I feel the ones I veto'd were intelligent veto's. What I want to know is if I'm blowing the health risks of the ones that I veto'd out of proportion because there's a safe way to do it and if there's things on this list that should be veto'd that aren't due to safety issues. . . Only what was veto'd for safety issues isn't listed (I veto'd anal and pegging because I am, quite simply, against either of them because of what doing them entails.)
Suspension Bondage - Partially veto'd, because he stated it would be done with ropes and chains, and I'm worried about a loss of blood to limbs
Hardcore Shibari - Partially veto'd, because he's also talking finger/toe bondage as well and not only is that not practical (from what I've gathered) but is extremely dangerous in terms of blood circulation
Normal Bondage - Not veto'd, so long as he's careful of rope tightness and pressure
Fire - veto'd for health concerns in terms of burns
Wax - Not veto'd because I know what candles to look for
Knives - Veto'd for safety concerns, though I mentioned cold butter knives (I do believe?) have about the same effect
Public Sex - Because he said very-public and that's not only very uncomfortable to me, but it pulls other people in who probably don't want to be pulled in without their consent
Face-fucking - Not veto'd, but I remember how it was mentioned that it could be dangerous due to falling under breath play?
Am I under wrong impressions on some of the above in their safety risks? And what's your view points of these particular BDSM aspects?
(Also, I probably should have put this in the safety section. :< Sorry.)
Suspension Bondage - Partially veto'd, because he stated it would be done with ropes and chains, and I'm worried about a loss of blood to limbs
Hardcore Shibari - Partially veto'd, because he's also talking finger/toe bondage as well and not only is that not practical (from what I've gathered) but is extremely dangerous in terms of blood circulation
Normal Bondage - Not veto'd, so long as he's careful of rope tightness and pressure
Fire - veto'd for health concerns in terms of burns
Wax - Not veto'd because I know what candles to look for
Knives - Veto'd for safety concerns, though I mentioned cold butter knives (I do believe?) have about the same effect
Public Sex - Because he said very-public and that's not only very uncomfortable to me, but it pulls other people in who probably don't want to be pulled in without their consent
Face-fucking - Not veto'd, but I remember how it was mentioned that it could be dangerous due to falling under breath play?
Am I under wrong impressions on some of the above in their safety risks? And what's your view points of these particular BDSM aspects?
(Also, I probably should have put this in the safety section. :< Sorry.)
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