Hi all, Myself and my girlfriend are new to the whole bondage thing & we need some advice. We have been together for 3yrs and weâ€™re beginning to explore the world of sub & dom roles. She has discovered that sexually sheâ€™s submissive and I have taken the dom role, and that suits us both sexually. Weâ€™re wanting to explore the world of restraints and tying her up while I have my way with her. But the problem here is, we donâ€™t want to be spending large amounts of money on suspension equipment and frames etc. Iâ€™ve found a few things online that I would like to get (this for example http://www.fetters.co.uk/products/Fettersâ„¢-Long-Suspension-Bar.html) but the problem is where would this be suspended from? Would it be an idea to find a supporting beam on the ceiling & have an O ring or something screwed into the beam? What is the best way to go about this? On my pay day we are getting body restrains, ball gags etc but also want something which can hold her while tied up standing up right with her arms tied to something on the ceiling. Any advice at all would be greatly appreciated. We are both adults over the age of 25 and we both have a major thing for restrains etc. Thanks in advance.