How best can I bruise my Sub?

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by yorkshiremale25, Jan 25, 2012.

  1. yorkshiremale25

    yorkshiremale25 New Member

    Hey. My Sub thinks I can't bruise her - I want to prove her wrong. I want to really bruise her backside - very, very extensively bruised. Do you have advice? I think I will start off slow and easy, working myself up to harder impacts with a paddle. Will this be enough? How long will I need to spank for? Thank you for your advice, I hope it will help.
    Free LIFE TIME Fileboom Premium
  2. Smallest

    Smallest Moderator

    Use a narrow, heavy implement so the blow isn't distributed and instead hits deep over a smaller area.

    It's not really a matter of how long. One hard blow will bruise her, or many lighter ones, but that could take ages and never happen.
  3. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    I'm just speculating (never tried to intentionally leave bruises), but a cane might be the best way to go. Your sub will feel it, and canes usually leave marks (at least, that's my impression--I've never used one in a substantial way).

    Be careful to only hit in safe areas, like the lower buttocks, upper thighs, upper back and pecs. If you're really hitting hard you've got to make sure you're not hitting joints, the spine, or the lower back or abdomen.
    Free LIFE TIME Fileboom Premium
  4. JettOnly

    JettOnly Member

    A backside can take a lot more abuse than other areas of the body without bruising but I found the welts from a cane bruised when other marks faided in a few hours

    I didn't like them at all but my breasts bruised much easier and the purple bruises lasted 2 weeks
    Go much more gentle if you are going there
  5. JettOnly

    JettOnly Member

    I dont know about nipple damage but I believe there are risks - I did ask on here and there were some great answers - I am on my phone just now and cant link to the thread

    With the cane I found the welt did bruise - but you are not really going to be able to get even covourage over the whole bum really - the bruises are in stripes where the cane impacts

    Just had another thought - pinching can cause bruises too
    Free LIFE TIME Fileboom Premium
  6. Smallest

    Smallest Moderator

    Pinch hard between your thumb and first knuckle, on the sides of her breast.

    There is little chance of nipple damage, but with too hard of an impact, you do risk damaging breast tissue.
  7. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    Also, keep in mind that some people bruise much more easily than others. I've met subs who could take an absolute pounding without developing a bruise or welt, and others who showed marks even after gentle impact play. Don't kill your sub trying to leave a bruise--she may just be someone who doesn't bruise much.
  8. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    Contrary to Hollywood depictions, gags do not silence the wearer. They make it harder for the sub to speak clearly, but even a gag that keeps the mouth shut (like a muzzle) cannot stop the sub from making noises in the throat. A gag will reduce noise, depending on what sort of gag it is, but the sub is still going to make noise.

    A gag that includes a mouth plug is probably your best bet for noise reduction, but remember to pay a lot of attention to the sub's ability to breathe through her nose. Also, given that people in pain have a tendency to bite down on things in their mouth, the mouth plug might not last too long--I don't know (never used one).

    I wouldn't cover the sub with a blanket--that will make it hard for you to see when she's using her safe word or gesture (and when gagged, the easiest safe gesture is for the sub to shake her head back and forth and grunt 'uh-uh' until the dom notices and stops; alternately, give her something to hold in her hand that she can drop on the floor to signal a need to stop). A blanket over the head might also increase the risk of smothering or choking.

    You might try ordering your sub to not make noise, which raises the possibility of disciplining her when she does make noise.
    Last edited: Jan 29, 2012
  9. Andre

    Andre New Member

    And for some people they do bruise but it takes a day or so to show.

Share This Page