Hello I've been with my husband since we were kids 14 & 15. We are now 31 & 32 and I really want him to be more open into experimenting with things such as blood play and bondage. Our sex life is satisfying but I have always had these untapped fantasies that I have wanted to share. I love cutting the pain the feel of the blood dripping off my skin and I am extremely turned on by the sight of blood.Now my husband hates this part of me and won't have anything to do with it. He has however agreed to do bondage play but he will not take it seriously. I just want him to be in control and not fucking giggle about it. How can I make him understand that this is a serious desire not a phase?