I enjoy making my submissives a little nervous... I was thinking of purchasing a spiked mace to throw in with the rest of my toys (not to actually use- just for the effect). I have a chain flogger that I don't use (the falls are really long and I figure I need more flogging experience before I use it). The second night I was with my last sub, I took him to a graveyard. I'm meeting a new potential sub for coffee today... I was wondering if any of you had any ideas to create a little nervousness? I already tried joking about trading blood to become part of my cult... Didn't seem to phase her! Hahaha. How do you guys intimidate your subs? I don't want to do anything TOO extreme as a lot of subs I play with are new, and I want them to be comfortable enough to play with me.