I am just starting to seek out filling my need or desire for dominance in all walks of life in a active way. Now in my area saddly there seems to be a lack of a big social scene So not only at my college would I be opening up the first BDSM type club I know of but also likely I will be asked questions on the exact nature of the lifestyle. Now as a person I come from a broken home and never desired to go to fully into the bedroom.However now as I am starting to really come into my own as far as being the leader in groups and becoming far more protective or some may assertive with others.Im wishing to extend into the BDSM in a relationship as well. So in closing, I would like to ask how: 1. Any other Dom's out there have come from such a background and how they deal with that part of there own self and the conflicts that come up from the need to furfil your lovers wants but at the same time makes you feel like your old man from being so psychically dominant. 2.How you would go about making your own BDSM club for a college/local area.In a fairly medium sized town. *edited* P.S By thinking of all of this I realized this may be my by best place to find others who have this desire as well. Is there any other Dom's out there who have a craving to corrupt others and more so the types that look very innocent. It is a very dark feeling. Hopefully someone may have some advice on that issue as well.