Consent on a Nude Beach

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by Foreverbunny91, Sep 15, 2012.

  1. I have an idea... but I'm afraid it will violate spectators consent. However, I am not sure. I want to take my submissive to a clothing-optional beach. I'll put a collar and leash on him and I'll wear my clothes, and I'll lead him to a spot on the sand, and have him put on my sun screen for me and hand me my drinks. Nothing kinky or sexual. Is that violating any possible spectator's consent?
  2. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    Well, many nudists feel that nude beaches are not sexual (but tell that to gay men), and that one is essentially supposed to act as one would in public. So I'd use that as my measuring stick. Is this something I would do in public? If not, don't do it at a nude beach.
  3. Smallest

    Smallest Moderator

    Collar and leash are okay in public, so I wouldn't think you'd offend people as long as you weren't doing anything else sexual. You'll just look sort of gothy.

    Of course, just because of the title of this thread, I'm going to echo to onlookers that nude beashes are not sexual, and fucking on them is not okay.
  4. L8NightQ

    L8NightQ Member

    I agree with Sebastian.... at least here in the states.
  5. Eeek! I know no sex in public, silly heads. I was just concerned about the leash.
  6. Smallest

    Smallest Moderator

    I know, I was trying to make it clear to others (seeing as threads like this tend to get bumped by someone stupider than everyone else). The leash I'd say should be fine, since you see them (not just by D/s couples) in public often enough.
  7. I dont suppose this will be of much help but I used to go to a nudist place as a child with my parents. Ok it was a private club but there were adults and children alike around. They obviously trusted that nothing untoward would happen there.

    I guess that with so much more worry these days children are unlikley to be taken to such places but I would just say be aware that just because you have this interest not everyone will and not everyone will want to see it. Discretion is the key :)
  8. TerribleT

    TerribleT Member

    I agree with mistress.
    there was a nude beach in australia that my parents liked to go to. Never a second thought about bringing the kids.
    Gay Head beach in Marthas Vineyard way im taking my kids there.

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