I think this would be the place to post, Couldn't see anywhere else... Hey Guys/Girls, I'm Dave and looking for some advice/help on starting to enjoy BDSM with others, and revealing to others that its what I like/Enjoy So here's my story: I'm recently turned 18 but I have enjoyed simple BDSM since, well since puberty to be honest... But unlike other boys at that age I never enjoyed watching the usual porn, I always thought it was boring and scripted... I have always liked watching movies/videos of Bondage and other fetish's.. eg. Kink.com and their range of websites.. e.g.. Men in Pain and Divine Bitches I have always kept it a very deep secret, I have never told anyone.. Especially friends because I didn't want to lose friends because they thought I was weird Now turned 18... I want to explore more, learn more. I've always preferred the idea of being playing the submissive role rather than dominative. I know there are quite a few Mistress' in the Glasgow area in Scotland which is only about 35 miles from me... The problem is that I don't really have any experience with other people nor have I done that much other than basic things myself either.. Would there be some kind of basic, start from the beginning training that a Mistress would offer?