Hi I'm kinda new here but I've had fantasies about bondage for some time .. and I'd like to try to live some of them out. I have a boyfriend who I have been dating since the beginning of Fall semester so it is pretty serious but when I brought up the idea of him tying me up he gave me a disgusted look so I haven't tried again. He said something like "only sluts are into that kind of thing". I didn't want him to think of me as a slut so I let it go. on the other hand I do have this guy friend who lives one street over and we've been friends since middle school. He has a crush on me forever and once confessed his love for me in a note and I only thought of him as a friend so it was wierd for a while but we are best buds now. I'm wondering now though if he might be the right person for me to experiment in bondage with.. lately he has found it cute to tickle me when he would come for study sessions. Last week he pinned me down on my bed to tickle but decided to go further and lift my shirt up. We both got very turned on but I told him afterward I was mad at him for groping me. I realized that that was the most turned on I've ever been. so my question is do I just wait for my boyfriend to get interested in bondage or give on the idea .. or do Iapproach my guy friend about the possibility. sorry for just rambling on her but it is kind of a complex situation.