Hello, My fiance and I have been together for quite some time. When our relationship started out he was completely vanilla. With some time and work he has come to love BDSM. For over a year of our relationship he insisted on being the Dominant and because I'm a switch and don't mind being tied up I allowed him to try it. However, I would always top from the bottom. Recently, a switch has happened and he has decided that he wants to full-out be my slave. Thus far he is doing really good. He does everything I tell him to and he tries very hard to make me happy. Having wanted him to do this for over a year you'd think I'd be happy and filled with ideas and while I am happy... I'm a little short on the ideas. He is no pain slut which is where my talent lies. He does enjoy pain a little but is having to be worked into it slowly... which I am doing. I just find doing the same thing over and over boring so I need some new ideas that he might like. All of this is so new and confusing to him because all his life and this relationship he has fought liking what he now finds that he does like. Since pain is very restricted, what else can I make him do? What are some basic rules some of you other Doms/subs have/follow? I would love some ideas of games that he and I can play as well. Any and all help would be appreciated! Thanks!