Let me start by saying I am very new to the dom/sub thing. The problem I'm having is the girl I am dominating says the only way she will be completely under control is if I hit her in the face. She says this will cause fear and make it easier for her to obey me. I've never hit a woman before and do not believe you should, and from what i've read it sounds like these types of relationship should not be based on fear. However, I have been having a mostly good time with this girl and want the relationship to continue. Does anyone have a good idea of what I can do in this situation?