Talking About BDSM

sebastian · May 5, 2010

Maso, you and your Dom could easily arrange a descrete set of protocols for use at social gatherings. You might be required to automatically refill his drink when it gets low, refill or dispose of his snack plate, and not sit on furniture (but instead sit on the floor by his knee when he sits).

hopefulsub · May 5, 2010

I'm hoping my bf will take interest in keeping it going at social gatherings. We're a little lucky though, never have enough seats around for the whole family if they all come over

sillylittlepet · May 5, 2010

Yeah its sort of hard for other people to understand that you're not being mistreated

I wonder if its the same way for male subs

J3Z · May 5, 2010

Well i dunno very much about this, but i˙d think that for male slaves it would be more mental abuse. Society still views men as the one that are suppose to be dominant and macho and all that. So i˙d imagine a male submissive would be branded as weak for submitting to a Dom or Domme.

Of course people who know BDSM know the difference between submission and weakness.

sebastian · May 5, 2010

Maso, sadly, I've never had a real relationship with a sub. I only discovered my dominance back in Dec, had a brief quasi relationship with a sub who was never available and who had pretty big emotional issues, and I have been subless since then. I've played with subs, but have not yet found one to develop a serious relationship with.

I think that in public, were I in something like a 24/7 situation, I would allow the boy to use my first name. His submission would be something of a secret. I really love the idea of being with a socially confidence and outgoing guy who's submissive to me in private, someone that no one would guess was submissive. On the other hand, if we were at some sort of BDSM function, it would be 'Sir'.

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