Does anyone else here enjoy role reversals in their BDSM? My partner and I are both sadomasochists, me being predominantly sado and him being predominantly maso. However, there's just something very appealing about it when he suddenly takes control and I wind up being on the receiving end. I'm not as big on pain as him, being a sadist I generally prefer inflicting, but it actually feels amazing. Also, what do you do about sub aftercare? Outside of the BDSM, we're actually quite tender and affectionate to each other, so it kind of balances it out. I'm thinking of using hot candle wax on him this weekend so I'd love some advice from those who've experienced it.