WrathofThor
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I think it's definitely possible. I too identify myself as Christian (despite the screen name... haha) although I don't belong to a formal organization of any kind and the way I practice my beliefs is heavily influenced by eastern religions. I'm one of the lucky ones that found my girlfriend in a vanilla relationship and we both discovered a kinky side to one another that matched very well. Looking back, there are so many things that attracted me to her that would hint at the relationship having the potential to be more than vanilla, but I didn't know that at the time.
However, I wasn't looking for any particular kind of relationship structure or power dynamic when I found her. I believe firmly that although we choose our path, our paths also choose us and with right action and faith our desires will come to fruition if we open ourselves to infinite potential. So, from my experience, it's definitely possible. And I agree with Sebastian that the traditional Christian view of marriage is compatible with BDSM so long as it's monogamous.
However, neither my girlfriend or I were celibate before meeting one another and each of us have had multiple sexual partners before getting a feel for what we like. When looking for a partner, I didn't impose too many restraints and had a much greater chance of finding someone. Is it right for me to assume you want someone who is also a virgin? That will drastically decrease potential partners in today's society. Once you decide you want someone who wants a D/S power dynamic, you're further decreasing the options by an even larger amount. Although the two aren't incompatible in theory, I think you're going to find your target is a small percentage of the population.
Are you interested in the power exchange in the relationship itself primarily, or does the sexual element of control also play a role in this? If it's only in the relationship then you might have a better chance, but if you're trying to find a sweet Christian girl that wants to be tied up and let you shove toys up her ass at your leisure then God bless your search!
My advice would be to pick which is more important to you, the sexual aspect or the religious aspect, and focus on one. You'll never find the ideal relationship because they are all based on trade-offs, so find what is the most important criteria and start looking there. You might find a a girl who is everything you want but isn't a virgin, challenging your beliefs. Or you might find a girl who shares your beliefs but not your kinks, challenging your animal nature. Good luck with the balancing act!
I don't want to make this a theological discourse, but my personal belief is that God created us with genitals with the intention that we use them and love them, because we are sexual beings by nature. I believe the so-called religious "rules" the Bible lays out are guidelines for health and society in the time period they were written, but not spiritual LAWS and must evolve as healthcare and society evolve. We have birthcontrol, pasteurization, and access to anti-bacterial products which make many of the guidelines about food and sex redundant. Also, since the Bible outlines guides for dealing with slaves, does that mean the Bible condones slavery? Another outdated concept. Jesus said NOTHING about these things, only love one another as our maker loves us.
However, I wasn't looking for any particular kind of relationship structure or power dynamic when I found her. I believe firmly that although we choose our path, our paths also choose us and with right action and faith our desires will come to fruition if we open ourselves to infinite potential. So, from my experience, it's definitely possible. And I agree with Sebastian that the traditional Christian view of marriage is compatible with BDSM so long as it's monogamous.
However, neither my girlfriend or I were celibate before meeting one another and each of us have had multiple sexual partners before getting a feel for what we like. When looking for a partner, I didn't impose too many restraints and had a much greater chance of finding someone. Is it right for me to assume you want someone who is also a virgin? That will drastically decrease potential partners in today's society. Once you decide you want someone who wants a D/S power dynamic, you're further decreasing the options by an even larger amount. Although the two aren't incompatible in theory, I think you're going to find your target is a small percentage of the population.
Are you interested in the power exchange in the relationship itself primarily, or does the sexual element of control also play a role in this? If it's only in the relationship then you might have a better chance, but if you're trying to find a sweet Christian girl that wants to be tied up and let you shove toys up her ass at your leisure then God bless your search!
My advice would be to pick which is more important to you, the sexual aspect or the religious aspect, and focus on one. You'll never find the ideal relationship because they are all based on trade-offs, so find what is the most important criteria and start looking there. You might find a a girl who is everything you want but isn't a virgin, challenging your beliefs. Or you might find a girl who shares your beliefs but not your kinks, challenging your animal nature. Good luck with the balancing act!
I don't want to make this a theological discourse, but my personal belief is that God created us with genitals with the intention that we use them and love them, because we are sexual beings by nature. I believe the so-called religious "rules" the Bible lays out are guidelines for health and society in the time period they were written, but not spiritual LAWS and must evolve as healthcare and society evolve. We have birthcontrol, pasteurization, and access to anti-bacterial products which make many of the guidelines about food and sex redundant. Also, since the Bible outlines guides for dealing with slaves, does that mean the Bible condones slavery? Another outdated concept. Jesus said NOTHING about these things, only love one another as our maker loves us.
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