Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by Rackley91, Jan 10, 2012.

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  1. Rackley91

    Rackley91 New Member

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    Hey I'm trying to come up with a nick name for my sub in the bedroom. She has no issues calling me master and all I can think of is slave or pet (aside from slut whore ect). Slave freaks her out and pet makes her feel like a dog.I want something that shows ownership but won't freak her out. I finally got her to wear something other than cheap ass handcuffs that have a release button (so cheap I bent them up in my hands). Any help would be great! Oh we have been together for 4 years and iv been hinting at this for years so any tips for making her more comfortable with it would be great also!
  2. Smallest

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    Although I assume you're not into pet play, your plight reminded me of a sub online who is simply 'Pepper.'

    There are tons of things in the FAQ about getting vanilla people into kink, but do you have any specific questions or problems getting her used to it?
  3. Sally

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    what about "nymph"? it is sweet and small, half submissive, not to speak about the magical and beautiful. My Master calls me something similar to our language.
  4. sebastian

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    You could go with something like 'baby' or another diminutive term like that. It sounds vanilla, so you can use it around others, but you and she will know that it means something deeper.

    A word of warning: NEVER use fake handcuffs. Only use genuine police cuffs. They are cheap ($20-30 at a army surplus store or police gear supply site). Fake cuffs (the sort you get at Hot Topic or places like that) are dangerous. They often have rough edges that can cut the sub's wrists, they usually lack a double-lock and can therefore tighten dangerously, and they can break when under strain, which might hurt the sub. The basic way to recognize genuine cuffs is that they have two links between the cuffs; fake ones usually have three.
  5. RopeRanger

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    I use 'little one' and called one simply 'mine'
  6. Sally

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    oh so cute<3 love those nickname Rope

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    A common and generic one I will use is "Silly little pet", it tends to get a rise, LOL!

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    I've always like the more harsh "slut" or "whore," but this is probably too much in this case...
  9. Sally

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    I'm going to tell the owner about "silly little pet"

    I love being called cute things, but also harsh words, such as ImperialConditioning mention.
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