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My boyfriend and I are also brand new to this entire idea, but both working together and trying anything we find. What we decided to do was to google. Just type in BDSM or bondage, and watch a few videos. But talk to her first, make sure its a mutual agreement, because you don't want her to find out you're watching a lot of porn when she didn't know about it.
When we started out, we would only research together. That way our brains were both focused, we could both look at videos and pictures that interested us, and in the end we would put the computer away and try a little bit of what we'd seen. Only as much as we were comfortable with, and it led to some very amazing nights.
Ideas to start with, are, as mentioned, spanking. It were we started. Then we tried some light bondage, like handcuffs. And we worked our way up from there, kept trying new things as we found them, and these days we search online seperately for things, then keep lists and bookmarks, and then cross check whenever we think of it.
About once a week or so we will lay in bed, turn on the tv (and turn it up, because we live with his parents, lol) and talk about everything. And then try whatever we come up with. I know that living with others can ber very annoying, so if neccessary, just turn the tv up and say it was a show on there. I am SO ready to have my own place, but in the meantime, I find it a little exciting and dangerous to do these things in the same house as others, like we could be caught....... lol.
Have fun, be honest and open, and don't be afraid to experiment!
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