Looking for ideas to do while starting a bdsm relationship

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by chinwan, Nov 4, 2008.

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  1. chinwan

    chinwan New Member


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    My husband and I are thinking about starting a bdsm relationship, with me being the dom. In order to experiment with it, we are going to start off with one night him listening to me whatever I tell him to do.
    The problem is, as of now, he does alot. So I am looking for Ideas for what I can tell him to do. (In bed and around the house, but espeially in bed).
    We established that the harder/ more reluctant he will be to do them, the better.
    So I am looking for some good ideas for the first night, and if all things go well, then for other nights as well. I guess the first night should be to ease him into it, but not to slowly of course.

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    Well I guess you should decide what kind of D/s relationship you're going to have.

    Will he be doing domestic chores? Which ones?
    Will he be sleeping in a cage? Eating/drinking from dog bowls?

    Decide what you would have him do, and then make him do it. xP
    Here's a link to some literature about the different kinds of relationships.
    http://www.leathernroses.com/generalbdsm/ravenrelationships.htm

    That whole site is full of info about the different aspects of a BDSM lifestyle.
    Im still reading through it, but I've learned a lot from it.
     
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